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Sunday, October 31, 2010

Three Pumpkins

                                          Three unsuspecting pumpkins...
Two industrious boys 
                          And a super-turbo "Deluxe" carving saw!
          I did what any sane parent would... RAN for cover ; )

Sunday, October 24, 2010

A Mother's Fear

I've been dancing around this...not wanting to post about it, but I think I need to. Something happened this month that I never imagined would and it was very frightening for everyone involved. Yonas, who's just eight, was in PE class at his elementary school; they were playing ball when he and another little boy both went to catch the ball at the same time and they ended up colliding heads...

The phone rang and it was Yonas's school on the other end. It's the call that a mother, let alone a mother with a positive child never wants to get. "Ma'm, you need to come to the school and get Yonas. There's been an accident and it looks like he's going to need stitches."

It gets worse. The child that he collided with also needed to go to the hospital. The accident had left both of them with open wounds, Yonas's just above the eye and the other little boy's was the forehead. My heart stopped. I really never imagined something like this would ever happen. Things like this only happen in the movies. I mean, what are the chances? I'll answer. Slim, but not impossible.

Yonas's school, who are (thankfully) aware of his HIV status, handled everything perfectly. After speaking with the principle and councelor we all decided, even though the probability of HIV transmission was very low, that we should tell the other little boy's parents that Yonas was HIV positive. After all, if the situation were reversed, I'd want to know.

The next call I made was to the little boy's mom. What do you say to a mom who's facing a nightmare like this with her child? I tried to reassure her. Told her her both kids had most likely hit the ground before either one had even started bleeding, told her Yonas was undetectable, meaning the virus in his blood is so low that transmission is highly improbable; I gave her phone numbers and tried to put her in touch with the best ID doctors I know, but I don't think any of this brought her much solace.

Although we did all that we could to assure them (and ourselves) you can imagine there was still a lot of concern, on both sides. There were doctor visits and numerous blood drawings for her child. The pediatric doctor the other mom had taken her son to had never dealt with HIV, so she called the CDC who recommended antiviral therapy as a precautionary measure. For peace of mind, the family opted to put their child on a course of heavy antivirals for three months. This seems like a lot, but I can understand needing that added assurance.

My heart goes out to this mom and this family. These medicines aren't easy to take by any means, and although I know with certainty that her child will be fine...still, this did happen and it has left me feeling pretty helpless.

I'm just so thankful for how this family and Yonas's school handled what could have been such a messy situation with the utmost care and regard for everyone involved.

It's only been three years since our family decided to disclose (read POZ story HERE) and I think about what a blessing that's been and how different this situation may have turned out had we still been hiding our status ... I do believe that things happen for a reason.

That woman's little boy will be fine. He will take the antivirals and then get tested twice more to be certain of a negative result, and then they will put this behind them. There will be no mass hysteria or parents up in arms that a child with HIV has been allowed to attend public school and we'll just go on as before with an even greater appreciation in our hearts for our community and the wonderful school system we have here. Ryan White is a young man whose story and life's work lives inside my heart. I think of him often and how what he went through changed a nation. Somewhere, he's looking down on this with reverence, I'm sure.

And Yonas, my spirited little guy? He'll be fine too–although, he has decided that the next time there's a ball in question–the other kid can have it!

Friday, October 22, 2010

Jack-O-Lantern Cookies

It's no big secret around our house that we love Halloween. Ghosts, goblins and little witches–I mean what's not to love, right? 

The kids and I pulled our the big box marked "Halloween Stuff" almost the second the calender allowed. This year we decorated with tombstones, ghosts and goblins ... SCAREY : ) Well, we tried anyway.

I think my favorite part of all is seeing what the kids decide to dress up as. I'll be sure to post pics. They've come up with some pretty clever costumes! 

But Halloween isn't Halloween until you've baked pumpkin seeds and cookies. Here's a great cookie recipe I thought I'd share. Have a happy Halloween, everyone!

Jack-O-Lantern Cookies
2 1/2
cups packed brown sugar
1
cup butter or margarine, softened
1/2
cup shortening
2
eggs
4
cups Gold Medal® all-purpose flour
4
teaspoons pumpkin pie spice
2
teaspoons baking powder
1/2
teaspoon salt
Assorted candies, nuts and miniature semisweet chocolate chips, if desired
Frosting
6
cups powdered sugar
2/3
cup butter or margarine, softened
1/3
cup frozen (thawed) orange juice concentrate
Green, yellow and red food colors

  1. Heat oven to 375°F. In large bowl, mix brown sugar, 1 cup butter, the shortening and eggs until well blended. Stir in flour, pumpkin pie spice, baking powder and salt.
  2. On lightly floured surface, roll 1/4 of dough at a time to 1/4-inch thickness. (Keep remaining dough refrigerated until ready to roll.) Cut with 3-inch pumpkin-shaped or round cookie cutter. Place on ungreased cookie sheets.
  3. Bake 8 to 10 minutes or until light brown. Remove from cookie sheets to cooling racks. Cool completely, about 30 minutes.
  4. In large bowl, mix powdered sugar and 2/3 cup butter until smooth. Stir in juice concentrate. Place 1/3 cup frosting in small bowl; add green food color until desired color for stems. To remaining frosting, add 2 drops yellow food color for every 1 drop red food color for desired shade of orange. Generously frost cookies with orange frosting. Frost stems with green frosting. Make jack-o'-lantern faces with candies.
Makes About 4 dozen cookies